It is for a fact that break-ups hurt like hell explaining why there are over 1 billion songs written on heart-break worldwide. Irrespective of how powerful you are, no one is immune or safe. This brings us to our question for the day, how do you move on from a break up as if it never happened?
1. Understand the reason for the break-up
People break up due to weird reasons. Someone can damp you just because he realized you have a big forehead. Well, as if he/she didn’t realize it when you first met. The first step to moving on from a break up is understanding why you broke up. I know some reasons hurt especially if the person cheated on you, but, hello, life has to go one. Right!!?
2. Are you at fault?
What end of heartbreak are you? If you are at fault I don’t promise it is going to be easy for you. You have to sincerely apologize to the person and take any reaction and treatment from them. On the other hand, if you are not at fault it’s easy, Stay away from that person, he/she doesn’t deserve you.
3. Cry it out
Crying is not for the weak, If you want to move on from a break up as if it never happened it is advisable that you cry about it. This is irrespective of whether you are a man or a woman. The main reason when women move on quickly compared to men is the simple fact that they cry about it, Men, on the other hand, pretend to be strong and it cost them dearly. Explaining why the majority of men would want to get back with their ex 10 years after the break-up.
4. Get rid of anything that reminds you of the relationship
Delete all the pictures you took together, delete all conversations and get rid of some of the presents he/she bought you. Out of sight out of mind and as long as you hold on to the memories you won’t move on.
5. Work on yourself
Don’t be too quick to move into another relationship. Take time to build yourself. Buy new sets of clothes, work on your self-esteem and confidence. It is only after doing this that you will be ready to meet someone new.
6. Meet new people
Don’t just stay indoors crying as if its the end of life. Move out more often and open yourself to meeting new people. If you like them feel free to screw them. And, if he doesn’t make you have an orgasm never talk to him again. Life is too short to fake orgasms. Do everything you couldn’t do when in a relationship. Thank me later.